But I would recommend these books regardless. Kyle Ingham is the Founder and Editor of The Distilled Man, an Looking for a mature friend 35 50 channel that helps everyday guys become well-rounded gentlemen. Kyle is a husband, new father, blogger, podcaster, and a recovering advertising executive. For the past 7 years, he's been helping men learn the essential skills and knowledge they need to become better, more confident men.
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I have joined meetup, and you hit the nail right on the head. It is a good way to socialize. I have found that I am approached by women mostly. This is not a bad thing, but it is not what I am looking for. Hopefully I will make some really good lasting connections. Would be cool to hear success stories. Men are simple yet so complicated.
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What will he think? How will I be perceived? But these friendships are so important. Thank you so much for writing this. I found myself in tears at one point.
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At first I was really put off and was waiting for the punchline asking for money or something equally as off putting. But as the conversation continued I realized that this guy was actually pretty cool and I started opening up. We ended up exchanging our info and went our separate ways. Which after your article I think I will. Nice article but from own experience, z you work in corporate world, never under any frieend make friends at fog work place.
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I will try my best to really work on myself. I met a guy in my University, he is one of the senior lecturer and I am one of the mature students at this Uni.
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Now I know! I have really been freind a negative headspace around this very issue. I have friends, but time, mxture, work,children, and just life in general have made those relationships difficult to maintain.
In the meantime it feels like I have no friends and that my interests are of no interest to anyone else. I think your article really puts it all into perspective. The friendships I have were established over a long period of time.
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